Saturday, 30 January 2016
The change may happen very quickly, perhaps over the course of a couple days, or in many cases it could have taken much longer...
Either way, you did *something* that caused your lover to go into a state of uncertainty... It could have been something you said that conflicted on a very deep level with your partner, and made them think you weren't worthy of their love and affection.
Figure 4. "The Switch" is a natural stage when one partner becomes unsure about the relationship. It could feel like they have become 'hot and cold' or 'moody'. And if something isn't done quickly, the relationship will eventually progress into the 'Drift' stage.
And when it happened, you might have felt like you were being 'tested' because your lover was no longer sure about being with you.
This stage is called "The Switch". And when your relationship decays to this stage, your partner loses their 'Bliss Blindness' and becomes much more critical of your imperfections.
The actions your partner used tothink were cute or sweet have now become a major turn-off.
It might seem like the harder you try, the more distant your partner becomes.
What used to make your partner laugh, now annoys them. The hobbies you once enjoyed, are no longer interesting.
And it's often frustrating when you realize the shocking truth...
The same things your partner LOVED in Bliss, push them AWAY in Switch!
That's why most people NEVER get their ex back... Even if you show how much you truly care... And it's not because sharing your feelings is bad...
It's because...
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